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Can we have a Dear_____ Thursday?

cause I sure need one...  Dear XH, You're credit card payment (that we're paying down together) is now 40 days past due and your April payment is now 10 days past due. Pay your sh!t. I just sent you...

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Have a good one....

Hope everything has an awesome Friday and weekend. My medical procedure got moved up to 3 hours earlier so I won't be working at all tomorrow. Maybe I'll pop in in the afternoon - depends how groggy I...

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Help me "look forward" to Saturday's date

I met a guy on match - started emailing a couple of weeks ago, but due to my schedule with DD and his with his son we are going out for the first time on Saturday for dinner.The first week I was pretty...

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A guy kind of threatened me

I was talking to this guy on POF yesterday (via text) and he went from normal to disgusting in like 60 seconds.  Then he got aggressive and started calling me names (I was on my google voice app on my...

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It is an inferno in here

I can't get the HVAC guy out here till MONDAY to fix my AC. With the curtains drawn, windows open, and 3 fans going, it's still 83 degrees in here. Just one more perk for not living with an...

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s/o 50 Shades stupidity

I have made an observation.  I see a lot of posts on FB regarding these books and I noticed that those who love them and can't seem to put them down are married, stay at home mom types. Makes you...

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While on the topic of cheating - what if BOTH do it?

So, the previous post reminded me of a situation with a couple that I know. Here's the situation: Husband had to move to a different state for work for about 6 months or so. Wife was in a different...

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Update on my situation

FormerlyAK has encouraged me to make a post with an update on my situation, so here it goes, lol. Things with L and I have been going really well.  I?ve been told by several friends that I?m the...

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s/o: Cool enough

What the heck does that mean?  The FB thread isn't the first time I've seen people use this terminology on this board, and it makes me sad.If there's a cool group on here, I'm totally oblivious to it....

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s/o dating with kids

This is a touchy topic but I feel like diving into it today.  What is the right time to introduce someone to your child and when will you know? In my situation, XH has minimal involvement so whoever I...

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I think we need a SO private FB page.

That is, of course, unless there already is one and I'm just not cool enough to be part of it!

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What's the longest you and SO have gone without lovin'?

Because of several factors (my period, SO having his kids for several days after that, work stress, and now SO's poison ivy, it's been 11 freaking days since we last did the deed! It's KILLING ME! 

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Down with 50 Shades! Give me a book rec!

You all ruined 50 Shades of Gray for me! (or saved me, not sure which) Anywho, now I need a new book to read seeing as I refuse to waste any more time reading 2 1/2 more books that don't have a plot....

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Back from court

So I went to court and XH wasn't there (which I expected).  He was under the impression that I could just tell the court he didn't want to change anything.  Wrong again.  Because I disagreed with his...

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Good morning

Have a good day everyone. I'm off to take a shower and go get this procedure done. Hope you all have a good day and weekend. :)

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AW: Had a Very Mature Adult Covo w/ My Mom

I know this isn't the typical AW post, but I'm still really excited about it. I was talking to my mother on the phone about the things I've learned about myself coming out of my divorce and the things...

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Snoozing...

It's Friday, and a yucky rainy day here in the NE.  Thunder/lightening began around 4:00 and alarm goes off at 6:30.  I so badly wanted to lay in bed all morning and not come to work. When my alarm...

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XP: Dog foster SO peeps, come in!

My BF and I decided to foster a pit vs adopt another one. Any questions that I should ask regarding the organization? I know they pay for the food/vet bills but that is about all I know. What else...

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Divorce is Final

So yesterday, my divorce became official and legal. We have been completely separated for a year so nothing really changed. We already had a property agreement in place that became the final divorce...

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TGIF! Weekend plans?

Happy Star Wars day!  May the Fourth be with you What are your plans for the weekend? Tonight, I'm having an early Cinco de Mayo celebration at my BFF's house with her and a couple friends.  Tomorrow...

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